Me and my ex were driving separate cars to the same destination. I was following behind but he was too fast and we went around a curve and I skidded out into the grass but was able to recover. I thought I saw him drive over water and I thought, well, maybe we were going fast enough for that....well about mid way through the lake, I sank and ruined my car and he helped me pull it out but it was ruined. And then he proceeded to ask me questions about why I thought I could drive over water and how stupid it was. And I finally admitted that I thought I saw him do it and he said, nooooo I drove around. And he laughed at me.
Based on the dream you described, here is a possible interpretation:
The separate cars represent individual paths and journeys after the relationship with your ex. Driving to the same destination may symbolize a shared goal or desire that you both had during the relationship. However, your ex being too fast and you skidding out in the grass may indicate that he moved on or progressed more quickly in his life compared to you.
The moment when you saw him drive over water could represent a belief or perception that he was able to navigate challenges effortlessly, while you struggled to do the same. It may symbolize feelings of inadequacy or comparison, where you felt pressured to keep up with him.
Sinking in the lake and ruining your car suggests a setback or failure in your own journey. This could reflect a feeling of not being able to meet your own expectations or feeling overwhelmed by obstacles. Your ex helping you pull the car out could indicate a willingness to support you, but the car being ruined may symbolize the irreversible damage caused by the setback.
Your ex asking you why you thought you could drive over water and laughing at you suggests a sense of ridicule or humiliation. It could represent inner criticism or doubts about your own choices and abilities. The dream may be highlighting a need to validate your own experiences and not rely on others' perceptions or judgments.
Overall, this dream may reveal unresolved feelings of comparison, inadequacy, and a need for self-acceptance and validation. It could be an invitation to focus on your own journey, set realistic expectations, and embrace your own pace of growth and progress.